What does it mean to live in God’s Grace?

This may be the most cliche thing I can say as a Mom, but I’m going to say it anyway. I wouldn’t trade one day of raising my teen girls for anything. I’ll take each mood swing, each time they talk back, each sweet conversation we have while driving from place to place. Each of these moments is a precious gift to me, and I’m hoping we can sit down for a moment and talk about why.


I am here today because I am loved with an everlasting love, from a God who holds nothing back. And while some days He feels distant, it’s not because He is. It’s because I’ve looked away. But He always pulls me back in. And sister, that is how we are called to live this life He gave us…. step by step, following Jesus, asking God to guide us.

When I was 18 years old, I was recovering from 3 years of a vicious cycle of abuse. These years were the darkest years of my life, filled with self-hate, depression, and isolation. I hid all that happened to me from my parents, for fear that they would hate me if they knew what had occurred. I remember my Mom asking me how she could help, she was desperate since I had gone from a bubbly and goofy tween to a dark and suicidal teen in a matter of a few months. She loved me fiercely through this time, trying so hard to fix things for me, but there was nothing she could do to ease my self-loathing. 



By 16, I was coming through, surrounding myself with better friends and finally beginning to come out of that depression. My senior year was highlighted by my high school graduation, where my parents watched me walk up that aisle with such pride. That day meant so much more than just finishing school. For our family, it was a new chapter to a brighter future.

But that joy was shortlived.

One week after my high school graduation my Mom was diagnosed with cancer. We fought as a family alongside her until she lost that battle a year later when I was 19 years old.

I wondered for so long how God could do this to me. Why would He bring me through all that I had suffered in the years before only to take away the one person who loved me unconditionally! She was my rock and my best friend, and now I was alone once again.


My brain blocked out all memories of that first year after her passing, the trauma was too much to deal with. But slowly over the next few years, as I grew up a bit, I began to notice small glimpses of God’s amazing grace in the most difficult circumstances.

Seven years after my Mom died, I gave birth to my first daughter. I was in such total shock and disbelief! I had always wanted a daughter, but all throughout my pregnancy, I swore I was having a boy. When we watch her birth video, we laugh because I say more than once “Are you sure it’s a girl!?!?!”

Two years later (almost to the day!!) I had my second beautiful daughter. And I thanked God over and over again. These girls were such a gift to me! My sister and I had always been so close, so seeing these two little sisters, and watching their relationship grow has been a greater gift than anything I could have ever asked for.

“Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us.” Ephesians 3:20

This isn’t to say that they don’t fight, hit or even get on my nerves…believe me, they do! And those hormones…oh boy… they are seriously no joke.


God created each and every one of us unique and equipped for different things. He designed us to love Him and promised us that He will never leave us or forsake us, even when life feels impossible.


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He just flat out told us that He is there and He will not let us fall. Not only that, but He promises us that He will help us each and every day! He doesn’t check out when things get rough. He doesn’t expect us to do things on our own. And even when we forget to look towards Him, He makes things new with the break of every new day.

How amazing is that!?!?!

I can look back over the last 20 years and not only see how God walked step by step with me through the darkest of days, He has given me strength that I wasn’t capable of having on my own. And He gave me a second chance.

My daughters are now the same age that I was when my life took that first dark turn. I take very seriously the care that God has entrusted to me to care for these children who are His, not mine. But with that great responsibility comes great joy when I get to see that I finally have that Mother/Daughter relationship that I’ve been longing for so many years. I see so much of my own Mom in myself, and so much of me and my sister in my girls.



Dear friends, I’m here today not to bum you out. I really hope this story is actually quite the opposite. My prayer for you today is that you can realize that God loves you and wants to help you with whatever challenge is in front of you. I pray that you can lean on God in your own dark times and wait expectantly for His grace and redemption on the other side. He is always there, and He won’t ever leave you.


I challenge you today to look back over the dark times of your life and see if it’s possible that you’ve missed seeing God’s blessings for you as He’s brought you through.

No matter where you are right now, God’s grace is there waiting to hold you tight. In the midst of trouble and trials, keep your eyes fixed on Him and He will show you the way you should go. And I promise, no matter how hard things are in a moment, nothing is too big for God.

So even when you have one of those days where you may forget to show grace to those around you, God still wants to give it to you abundantly. And when you rest in His grace, you will find you can give more in return.

If you’re struggling, need encouragement or would like prayer as you walk through this. Feel free to reach out to me by email  or leave a comment below. I would be honored to pray for you in it. 


The first step to recognizing God's grace in your life is spending time in His Word

But sometimes knowing where to start can be daunting. The Quiet Time Journal was created to guide you into God's Word and help you discover just exactly what He is saying to you each day. This valuable tool will help organize your thoughts and bring even more depth and meaningfulness to your personal time in the Word.

Bible Journaling Prompts

Apply what you’ve learned

 We all have moments where we need to rest in God’s grace. This week, read the following passages and journal about what God’s Word tells us about resting in God’s grace.
  1.  2 Corinthians 12:8-9
  2.  John 1:14
  3.  2 Peter 1:2
  4.  Hebrews 4:16
  5.  Romans 6:14
  6.  Matthew 11:28-30
  7.  Exodus 33:14
  8.  Psalm 23:1-6
  9.  Psalm 37:7
  10.  John 16:33
  11.  Philippians 4:6-7
♡ What is grace? How would you define the grace given to us through Christ Jesus? I found some great explanations in this forum 🙂 https://www.quora.com/What-is-the-difference-between-grace-and-mercy-in-Christianity
♡ Want to find a simple way to make Bible study a part of your everyday routine? Check here, where I lay out 7 easy steps to personal Bible study.

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9 Responses

    1. Neca, yes!!! I love it when once you come out on the other side of a dark place and see that God was there all along, working through it. Those are amazing moments <3

  1. Beautiful encouragement on God’s unfailing love and grace! I know for me that coming out of a dark place in my life is when I came to understand more of what God’s grace was all about. He is so amazing how He weaves in and out of our life to bring things once lost back to us through a new way!

    1. April, there is so much truth there! If we never experience doubt or trouble, we can’t fully understand how wonderful God’s grace truly is. Thank you for sharing!!!

  2. I always heard grace defined as God’s Riches At Christ’s Expense. It is true, all the abundant living is a gift from Him, for those who believe in Jesus and are heirs of the kingdom through Christ. Yet, that definition fell short in my mind. Your study questions and scriptural verses really opened up a bigger picture of His grace for me.

    Your title, “Resting in God’s Grace ” drew such depth out of those verses. I didn’t have the same painful past experience you shared (all praise to God that he was with you through it ), but I did go through some awful stuff.

    I was struck by all the passages pointing towards God’s grace as being a gift of peace, calm, strength, shalom. When we seek God and submit, he does the rest! He pursues me with goodness and grace!

    We don’t need to struggle or worry ourselves sick –he abides with us even in our darkest troubling times. Only he can give peace –total peace when it doesn’t make sense to be at peace. Believe in him, have confidence in who he is, and he will give you peace that passes all understanding. Be patient in his timing, sit and remain in him. All this is a gift from God, called grace.

    Thank you, Angie, for this devotional. I grew in spiritual understanding.

    1. Julie,
      I appreciate your point of view!! Yes, I agree that there is so much more depth and beauty in the definition of God’s grace if you just seek the real understanding of it through God’s Word. I feel like even aft4er all I’ve been through I’m only at the very beginning of understanding the depths of His grace. And being one who has experienced the “peace that surpasses all understanding” I often pray that for people who I know are struggling. While God doesn’t always lift us out of the pit, He can and will equip us to persevere through it. Look at Paul. He gave thanks while in shackles in a dark prison. How? By the grace of God alone. It didn’t make sense to those seeing it, but it was a gift of God, one that He still gives abundantly today to those who ask for it.

      Thank you so much for the conversation, I love seeing that!! You are a blessing to me <3

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